Introducing
Premarital Coaching with Dr. Kim Smiley
Perfect for Engaged Couples, Soon-To-Be-Engaged Couples and Newlyweds!!
It's so easy to get swept up in the excitement of being engaged and planning your dream wedding, but in the whirlwind of it all, many couples lose sight of the big picture—
the marriage itself.
Everyone around you is buzzing with excitement—family, friends, all with their own expectations and advice. Before you know it, you’re running through the motions, checking off wedding planning tasks, but is your relationship actually thriving?
If you’ve found yourself caught in the whirlwind of wedding prep and feeling that tug, that feeling that something crucial is slipping by…
Or, if you and your partner feel like you're losing track of the bigger picture—your dream marriage—keep reading...
Because if you’ve ever looked at those truly happy, deeply connected couples (no, not the Instagram-perfect ones, but the real ones) and wondered, 'What makes them so different?'—here’s the secret:
It’s not luck. It’s not destiny. It’s not even about finding a 'soulmate.'
These couples have unlocked a few essential, game-changing habits that set them apart:
🤍 They’ve mastered communication that’s open, honest, and kind.
🤍 They share a vision and are fully aligned on what matters.
🤍 They’ve built a foundation of friendship that endures.
🤍 And they’ve found harmony in balancing their individual lives with their shared life.
These couples don’t just wish for a happy marriage—they make it happen. They are intentional and proactive, investing time and energy into building the connection that will last. They understand that a thriving marriage requires consistent nurturing, growth, and care.
Imagine having a customized roadmap for your relationship—one that’s tailored to what makes you both unique, and that equips you to build a marriage that truly lasts…
If you’re ready to invest in the future you’re dreaming of together, I’ll show you how...
I'll never forget the first couple I worked with for premarital coaching.
After years of helping couples in therapy and working with individuals to improve their relationships, I was eager to support couples from a fresh perspective.
That first experience opened my eyes to the unique energy and excitement that engaged couples bring—a readiness to learn, grow, and build skills before challenges set in.
Engaged couples present a prime opportunity for intervention and skills-building. With guidance, they lay the groundwork for a deeply fulfilling and resilient marriage.
So, I became a certified Prepare-Enrich counselor, drawing on its research-backed tools and my years of experience to create a comprehensive program for engaged couples.
Growing up around unstable relationships and witnessing the pain of divorce, I know how strong the desire for a secure, lasting partnership can be. Like many couples, I once felt the joy of planning a future with someone special while also feeling the uncertainty of what lay ahead.
And that's why this work matters to me. Wedding planning is exhilarating, but preparing for a marriage is a journey that requires guidance, support, and practical tools—essentials that I am passionate about providing.
In my program, I've crafted unique, personalized strategies designed to help each couple build on their strengths and tackle their unique challenges. My goal is to empower you with confidence and clarity, giving you the skills to build a happy, fulfilling marriage from day one.
This program is more than a service; it’s my passion project. I am devoted to helping couples like you build their dream marriage without the guesswork, the anxiety, or the worry.
I created this premarital program for you—to eliminate the overwhelm and equip you with the essential tools for the journey ahead!
I can't wait to meet you and become your relationship cheerleader for life!
Let's Get Your Relationship on the Right Path...
Because Let's Be Real, You Have Enough On Your Plate!
You’re engaged, so you must be doing something right…right? You’re happy, hopeful, and excited about your future. You have the occasional argument like every couple, and for the most part, you get through it.
But now, with wedding planning adding extra pressure, you’re starting to see how working together toward a shared goal can be more challenging than you expected.
You’re feeling a bit of worry creeping in, but you don’t want to let it overshadow the excitement of this time together. Maybe you’re even wondering if these concerns mean something more, and yet, bringing them up feels like it might dampen the joy you’re both feeling right now.
Imagine waking up each day, not only excited to plan the wedding of your dreams but also confident that you’re building the marriage of your dreams.
You’ll have the certainty that you and your partner have worked through the essential, life-shaping conversations every couple should have before marriage.
Conflict no longer feels intimidating because you’ve gained communication skills and a reliable approach to navigate any tough moments ahead.
You both have a crystal-clear understanding of each other’s expectations for the future, and you’re aligned on critical areas—finances, family planning, religion, and beyond.
Together, you’re building a shared path, rooted in mutual values and a deep understanding of each other, keeping your relationship strong, connected, and on course for years to come.
You’re engaged or soon-to-be engaged and are committed to laying the strongest possible foundation for a lifetime with your partner.
You have a wonderful relationship and feel happy together, yet you sense there are a few areas that could flow more smoothly with a bit of guidance.
You love your partner deeply, but recognize that past relationships have left some lingering challenges, and you’re ready to address these together for a stronger, healthier future.
You’re soon-to-be engaged or heading in that direction, and you want to start your journey together with a solid foundation for a lasting marriage.
You’re newlyweds who want to build on your relationship’s strengths and gain tools to navigate the early years of marriage with confidence and clarity.
With focus on the 4 Pillars of Relationship Success, you’ll have a dedicated guide and mentor by your side, equipping you with the essential skills to build a thriving marriage. No guesswork, no added stress—just a clear path to creating a strong foundation for your future together. So while you focus on planning your wedding and enjoying every moment of this exciting journey, you can feel confident knowing you’re setting yourselves up for lifelong success.
Let's get real for a moment: you and your partner have an incredible connection, and you both have dreams of building a beautiful life together.
But if you’re honest with yourselves, the challenges of planning a future as a team—especially in the midst of all the wedding planning—can start to feel overwhelming.
You may wonder if love alone is enough to keep the relationship strong and steady when life throws you curveballs.
You might be feeling confident one minute, and the next, you're caught off guard by the deeper conversations and decisions that keep popping up—questions around finances, family planning, or how to handle conflict in a way that keeps you both feeling heard and respected.
And maybe, just maybe, you’re wondering if you have the right skills to handle it all or if those little bumps in the road could turn into bigger obstacles down the line.
Here’s the good news: You don’t have to figure it out alone.
My coaching program is designed to take you step-by-step through the essential skills, conversations, and practices that will give you confidence in your future together.
With my guidance, you’ll gain the tools you need to build a rock-solid foundation, eliminate those nagging doubts, and ensure that your marriage starts on the best possible footing.
15-Minute Consultation and Orientation to the Process ($87 Value)
Personal History Interview via Google Form ($175 Value)
Prepare Enrich Assessment, Comprehensive, 10-page Couples Report ($287 Value)
Six (6) virtual premarital sessions (45-55 minutes each) ($2100 Value)
Optional One (1) “marital check-up” session (anytime 6 months after the wedding date) ($350 Value)
BONUS: Premarital Coaching Guide Book ($127 Value)
BONUS: Making the Most of Your 1st Year of Marriage (52 Week Guided Journal for Couples) ($97 Value)
BONUS: Conflict Resolution Cheat Sheet
($97 Value)
BONUS: Love Language Discovery Toolkit ($127 Value)
Option: Add on Additional Coaching Sessions at Discounted Rate
TOTAL VALUE: $3447
15-Minute Consultation and Orientation to the Process ($87 Value)
Personal History Interview via Google Form ($175 Value)
Prepare Enrich Assessment, Comprehensive, 10-page Couples Report ($287 Value)
Ten (10) virtual premarital sessions (45-55 minutes each) ($3500 Value)
Optional Two (2) “marital check-up” sessions (anytime 6 months after the wedding date) ($700 Value)
BONUS: Premarital Coaching Guide Book ($127 Value)
BONUS: Making the Most of Your 1st Year of Marriage (52 Week Guided Journal for Couples) ($97 Value)
BONUS: Conflict Resolution Cheat Sheet
($97 Value)
BONUS: Love Language Discovery Toolkit ($127 Value)
Option: Add on Additional Coaching Sessions at Discounted Rate
TOTAL VALUE: $5197
[Or, Six Monthly Payments of $397]
15-Minute Consultation and Orientation to the Process ($57 Value)
Personal History Interview via Google Form
($97 Value)
Prepare Enrich Assessment, Comprehensive, 10-page Couples Report
($287 Value)
Virtual PE Feedback Session (60-90 minutes) ($377 Value)
Option A: Add one of the other packages at a later time with $397 credit.
Option B: Add on virtual sessions at a discounted rate, ($247 Value per session)
BONUS: Conflict Resolution Cheat Sheet
($97 Value)
BONUS: Love Language Discovery Toolkit
($127 Value)
TOTAL VALUE: $1298
Your Price: $397
[Or, Three Monthly Payments of $147]
Click any link on this page, and you'll be taken to a brief application. Simply complete the questionnaire, and I’ll reach out with the next steps to get started.
Finally, we'll also review the coaching guide book and all the Bonus Items, including how to access them and how to use them over the next few months.
And, I'll answer any lingering questions!
You and your partner will complete the Prepare-Enrich Couples Assessment, which will generate a comprehensive, 10-page report.
We’ll review this report in detail during our sessions, helping us tailor our work to your relationship’s unique strengths and growth areas.
During your coaching sessions, we’ll dive into your Prepare-Enrich report and my curated program for engaged couples.
Together, we’ll cover four Key Areas: Skills to Master, Nurturing the Relationship, Finding Balance, and Working Toward Alignment.
You’ll utilize the Guide Book which is designed to help you take notes, reflect, and stay on track throughout the program.
Between sessions, you’ll have the chance to practice what you’re learning, so we can fine-tune these strategies to fit your relationship perfectly.
During your final coaching session, we'll review everything we've covered over the course of our time together, making sure your guide book is complete with all the key ingredients specific to your relationship dynamics.
It's important to understand: coaching spots will be scheduled on a first come, first serve basis.
Space is limited, and I fully anticipate this offer will sell out.
Once my availability reaches capacity, remaining applicants will have the option to be placed on a waitlist for future openings.
If, for any reason, we determine together that this coaching program isn’t the best fit, you’ll have the opportunity to explore other programs and resources that I offer.
What is premarital coaching, and how is it different from traditional therapy?
Premarital coaching is focused on building skills and preparing you for a successful, fulfilling marriage. Unlike traditional therapy, which often focuses on diagnosis and treating deeper emotional challenges, premarital coaching is proactive, emphasizing relationship enhancement and teaching skills to strengthen your connection and improve relationship performance.
This program is ideal for engaged couples, soon-to-be-engaged couples, and newlyweds who want to build a strong foundation for their marriage. It’s designed to provide guidance for those who are deeply committed to growing together and setting their relationship up for lasting success.
Absolutely! Premarital coaching isn’t only for couples facing challenges. It’s for any couple who wants to ensure they’re well-prepared for marriage. This program is about learning new skills, strengthening your connection, and proactively discussing key topics to help you both feel secure and aligned as you start your life together.
The program typically takes about 8 to 12 weeks, depending on our collective schedules and availability. Each session lasts around 45 to 60 minutes. Most couples arrange sessions weekly or biweekly to fit into their schedule, but we can create a schedule that works best for you. The goal is to complete the program at a pace that feels right for you both.
In addition, you will have access to a scheduling link so that you can cancel sessions and reschedule them at your convenience. However, there will be fees associated with late cancellations (i.e., cancelling within 24 hours of your session).
What if we’re uncomfortable discussing certain topics?
That’s completely okay. I create a safe, non-judgmental environment where you can share openly at your own pace. We’ll go at a speed that feels comfortable for both of you, and I’ll provide guidance to help you approach each topic in a way that feels manageable and respectful.
What happens if we need extra support after completing the program?
You’ll have the option to schedule additional sessions if you’d like ongoing support after the program ends. These sessions can help you stay on track and provide guidance on any new challenges or questions that may arise as you transition into married life. These additional sessions will be offered at a discounted rate of $197 each.
What if we decide not to go forward with the program before we complete it?
My goal is to ensure this program is the right fit for you. I want you to feel confident and comfortable in your decision to work together.
If, after a few sessions, you feel the program isn’t meeting your needs, I offer a prorated refund based on the length of time completed in your chosen program.
Due to the nature of digital products, refunds are not available once they have been accessed or delivered.
What should I do if I still have questions?
If you have any additional questions or need further clarification, I’m here to help! Please don’t hesitate to reach out to me directly at drkimsmiley@gmail.com, and I’ll be happy to assist you.